Dating a younger women advice
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"I am a 53 year old recently divorced man getting back in the dating game.My problem is I can easily pass for being in my late 30's.
Having said all of that (don't worry, my rant about dating younger women is over), you do say that younger women are attracted to you.
When it comes down to it, a younger woman satisfies one of the most basic human needs: connection.
(I talk about this more in my book, .)This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives.
The offshoot of this ever-growing trend is that men my own age are busy pursuing women in their early 20s, to the point of where its rare to find a man in his 30s or older online whole profile says anything but 'dating younger women' is what they're after, even if its just the age range that is able to contact them.
And its not just me: many readers complain about the same thing, especially the 50-something ladies almost frantic with frustration, because - you guessed it - none of the men they grew up with will give them a second glance.
After all, young women are fun, free-spirited, energetic and have a zest for life.
This youthful energy is attractive to an older man who may be feeling his mortality.
These are all the stereotypical reasons people tend to think older men love to date younger women.
And while these things may be true for some men, the attraction is a little more complicated than that.
But if you're lying about your age or withholding your age?
Sooner or later it'll come out in the open, and don't be surprised if the relationship ends because of it. My Dad was 14 years older than my Mom, and a close female friend of mine has been dating a man almost twenty years her senior for seven years.
If that's truly the case, I don't see what the problem is.