My boyfriend is on a dating site
My boyfriend is on a dating site - dependency property not updating ui
You need to focus on you, your needs, your future, and your happiness.
But my point is, ignoring the issue will only make it worse. After a period, due to this ignorance, he may get the courage to bring this cheating out of the cyber world into real world. I think it is a GREAT idea to post your photo with the exact same profile as he has done on POF and see how he responds. Eventually one day I took out my photo album where there were many pictures of old boyfriends and casually flipped through it. If he comes off all defensive and accuses you of invading his privacy, you will know what kind if man you have on your hands - one who is not fully appreciative of you. You are the first prize, not the consolation prize. It's bringing me down and making me feel like there is something wrong with me, makes me feel super insecure. He will say anything to avoid you finding out the truth.The start of your reply describes well what I d like to do. I want to go, leave without a trace don t want explanation. Hello Gizzle, Please see my comment above about sexual addiction.but we got back together and i thought we were on our way to work things out. why is he on this site if not to look for someone else.. I was also thinking that If he goes on a date I just turn up. At the same time I could just join i and address the issue might as well while I'm there...😳 Leave. I was at some point doing things that scared me because I would never do such thing.But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. It was a kind of self harm which again nobody knows because I find it embarrassing. You are in an awkward spot because you know this doesn't end nicely. You have just been told secretly he is a BF and a quiet pig. You have to choose whether you are going to live with that fact. Calm yourself down as much as you can before you confront him about it so that you don't get too angry or upset. It may have been a thoughtless mistake that escalated into something else. His search history said "free singles in my area"...
Nothing will come of talking for until he has met someone else he wants you as the live in and wants some other deserts on the side. If I were you, I would go into it with a clear mind. Firstly he didn't get a number off someone or walking down the street bumped into someone. After long conversations and work, things seem to be going well lately....until this morning I had a bad feeling and looked at his phone.
It moved quickly, we were both fresh out of long term relationships.
Things can get so horrible if he is a SA and you stay with him without him being in treatment. Mary I've been with my bf for almost 3 years.met on POF.came to find out we had mutual friends.
From what you describe of your boyfriend, he does have that issue. What you can do is seek help for yourself, and separate from him so you can heal.
That may motivate him to seek help for himself, but that is his problem and his alone.
Confronted him and he snapped saying he wasn't ready for a realationship..